I think this is probably true of a lot of marriages that end in divorce: neither one of us felt “heard.” The [collaborative] process was an eye-opener…and an “ear-opener” I guess you’d say. We each got to say our piece. And, I can’t speak for my ex, but I felt she “got” what I was talking about in a deep way. To me, that was what made my divorce really a completion. When we were done, we were DONE. And now we’re okay parents together. I’m not mad at her, she’s not mad at me. I’m really grateful to [my coach], for showing me the way.