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How Do We Want to Divorce?
Choosing the Process That Best Fits Your Family The First Decision May Not Be the One You Think Most people don’t expect to become experts on divorce. They certainly don’t expect to be researching legal processes, parenting plans, retirement division, or support calculations. Yet there comes a point for many couples when they recognize that,…
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Reducing the Stress of Divorce: Research-Backed Ways to Protect Your Mind, Body, and Family
Divorce is one of life’s most stressful experiences. In fact, decades of research have consistently ranked divorce among the most significant life stressors, alongside the death of a loved one and serious illness. It affects not only your emotions, but your sleep, immune system, concentration, decision-making, and physical health. The good news? While you may…
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Reverse Your Thinking Podcast: DWRW 2026
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“How Do You Rebuild Financially After a Long‑Term Marriage Ends?”
A Simple Roadmap for Starting Fresh Divorce after a long marriage can feel like having the rug pulled out from under you. Your routines change. Your home may change. And your finances—well, they suddenly need a brand‑new plan. Even if you are eligible for spousal support, it is just one piece of a much bigger…
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What is the Difference Between Mediation and Collaborative Divorce?
Mediation and Collaborative Divorce both keep couples out of court and allow you and your spouse to control the outcome of your divorce. Mediation uses one neutral professional and is typically faster and more affordable, while Collaborative Divorce relies on a full support team—including attorneys, divorce coaches, and a financial neutral—making it better suited for…
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How Do We Want to Divorce?
Choosing the Process That Best Fits Your Family The First Decision May Not Be the One You Think Most people don’t expect to become experts on divorce. They certainly don’t expect to be researching legal processes, parenting plans, retirement division, or support calculations. Yet there comes a point for many couples when they recognize that, […]
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Reducing the Stress of Divorce: Research-Backed Ways to Protect Your Mind, Body, and Family
Divorce is one of life’s most stressful experiences. In fact, decades of research have consistently ranked divorce among the most significant life stressors, alongside the death of a loved one and serious illness. It affects not only your emotions, but your sleep, immune system, concentration, decision-making, and physical health. The good news? While you may […]
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“How Do You Rebuild Financially After a Long‑Term Marriage Ends?”
A Simple Roadmap for Starting Fresh Divorce after a long marriage can feel like having the rug pulled out from under you. Your routines change. Your home may change. And your finances—well, they suddenly need a brand‑new plan. Even if you are eligible for spousal support, it is just one piece of a much bigger […]
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What is the Difference Between Mediation and Collaborative Divorce?
Mediation and Collaborative Divorce both keep couples out of court and allow you and your spouse to control the outcome of your divorce. Mediation uses one neutral professional and is typically faster and more affordable, while Collaborative Divorce relies on a full support team—including attorneys, divorce coaches, and a financial neutral—making it better suited for […]
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Why Collaborative Divorce Is Harder Than Court
And Why That Actually Matters If you’re considering collaborative divorce, chances are you’ve already been treated to the usual sales pitch. You have probably heard that it is more peaceful, less adversarial, and better for everyone. Those phrases get repeated a lot, usually without much explanation. Sure, those things are true. But they don’t tell […]
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Part 2: Benefits, Challenges, and Future of Collaborative Law in California
Collaborative Law offers several advantages for people who want a fair and peaceful resolution. Still, the system faces some challenges and limits: From a policy viewpoint, Collaborative Practice supports the state’s larger goal of reducing crowded court dockets and promoting peaceful conflict resolution. Some family courts already encourage parties to try cooperative approaches before trial.
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Part 1 — What Collaborative Law Is and How It Works
In California, most family law disagreements have traditionally gone through the court system. That system is called adversarial because each side fights to win. Court cases can be long, costly, and stressful for everyone involved. To give families another choice, lawyers in California began using a different approach called Collaborative Law. Collaborative Law, also called […]
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California’s New “Joint Petition for Dissolution” Will Benefit Spouses In Collaborative Divorce Cases Starting January 1, 2026
Beginning in January 2026, California’s Family Code introduces a transformative change that will benefit spouses seeking a collaborative divorce. With the passage of Senate Bill 1427, married couples seeking to divorce amicably may file a “Joint Petition for Dissolution” of marriage or legal separation. Although California has allowed spouses to file a joint petition for a […]
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COLLABORATIVE DIVORCE THROUGH THE EYES OF A LITIGATOR
I have litigated cases all over Southern California for almost twenty years. I actually enjoy preparing direct and cross examination questions as well as opening and closing and I feel I am quite good at it. I even like being in trial. I find that when I listen to judges make rulings from the bench […]
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When One Parent Wants to Move Away: Protecting Kids in a Long-Distance Parenting Reality
In California, we’re seeing a growing trend: during or after divorce, one parent considers moving out of state. Sometimes it’s the high cost of living. Sometimes it’s the pull of extended family in another region. Sometimes it’s a new job, or simply the desire for a fresh start. These reasons are real and valid—but for […]
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Considering Divorce? Here’s What You Need to Know About Divorce With Respect Week
Study after study shows that parental conflict in divorce is connected to poor outcomes for kids. However, divorce involves many difficult decisions that parents can find quite conflictual. On top of that, the court system is inherently adversarial, designed for prosecuting and defending (perhaps a familiar dynamic in your marriage you’re trying to get away […]