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Are There Different Kinds of Divorce Lawyers?

January 2, 2024 By Lynette Kim

Are there different types of divorce lawyers, and how do you choose what is going to be best for you? There are different types of divorce lawyers, who take different approaches and it is important to align your needs with the attorney’s philosophy.

Two Types of Divorce Attorneys

Different Lawyers

Divorce lawyers can be broadly classified into two main categories:

1)   Litigating attorneys specialize in high-conflict cases, often involving custody battles and complex disputes.

2)   Attorneys who may adopt Collaborative Divorce or Mediation models that promote a more amicable resolution.

When considering how to pick the right divorce lawyer, you should consider the importance of evaluating the nature of your case. Urgent situations with high-conflict issues, such as child abduction, may necessitate a more aggressive litigating attorney to protect your interests and any children involved. However, for cases without such urgent circumstances, a non-adversarial approach through collaboration or mediation might be a more suitable choice.

You should consider interviewing potential attorneys to gauge your mutual compatibility. Aligning your philosophy with the attorney’s approach is key. During consultations, you should strive to establish rapport and assess whether the attorney’s style resonates with your goals and values.

Be Aware of Attorneys that Make a Case More Adversarial

One crucial point to be aware of is the potential for attorneys who specialize in high-conflict cases to inadvertently turn a non-adversarial divorce into an adversarial one. This underscores the importance of understanding the attorney’s predisposition toward litigation or settlement facilitation. You will need to discern whether an attorney genuinely seeks to help facilitate a settlement or if their inclination leans toward contentious courtroom battles.

The diverse landscape of divorce lawyers necessitates careful consideration when selecting the right lawyer for your divorce. You should evaluate the nature of your case, align your philosophy with the attorney’s approach, and ensure compatibility during the consultation process. By understanding the distinctions among litigating and non-adversarial attorneys, you can make informed decisions to navigate the complexities of divorce proceedings with confidence and the assurance that your chosen attorney is the right fit for your unique situation.

The Kim Mediation and Law Center is located at 3701 Wilshire Blvd. Suite 508 In Los Angeles, CA.  You may schedule an appointment by calling 213-352-1000, or visit http://www.kimmediationandlaw.com

Filed Under: Collaborative Divorce Tagged With: Divorce, Lawyers

About Lynette Kim

Lynette Kim is a Los Angeles based Collaborative Attorney and Mediator. A child of divorce herself, Lynette understands the emotional and psychological impact divorce can have on children and is encouraged by her experience with helping families preserve relationships through non-adversarial means of ending a marriage. Her office is located at 3701 Wilshire Blvd., Ste. 508, Los Angeles, CA 90010
213-351-1000.
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